Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Ever Had a Neighbor Like This?




Do you have
a rake
a needle
any Tylenol
a step stool
any new CDs?
Can I see your
Juice DVD
Boomerang DVD
your Aaliyah tape?
Can I have a ride to
McDonald's
a party
and to school?
Do you have 
some markers
a paint roller
that new Ice Cube
any clear nail polish
any white thread
an extension cord
any old newspapers?
Can I have a ride...
for the rest of the year?

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Why I'm Keeping My Relaxer


















I've been relaxing my hair for over 20 years, so the thought of not getting anymore
relaxers sounded like a great idea. After my last relaxer (about 6 weeks ago now)
I decided I'd research some women who have gone natural. I read through web-
sites, subscribed to newsletters, talked to women, and looked at a lot of videos
about natural hair. I've come to the conclusion that natural hair is a lot more work
than my relaxed hair.

If I was willing to cut my hair short and start completely over it wouldn't be as
much of a challenge, but I don't want really short hair. And If I decided to keep
my relaxed hair while trying to "go natural" I'd just have a head full of mess. It's
really hard to style half relaxed and half natural hair. Plus, the women that do 
have the patience to grow their natural hair long, spend hours taking care of it.
I give props to any woman with that kind of patience.

I know relaxers are full of chemicals and I'm a chemical hater, but I'd rather
give myself a relaxer every 7 weeks than spend hours a week styling my hair.
That's why I'm keeping my relaxer.